You're not understanding. It's not a problem "seeing" the 64-bit option. It's a problem that the option is there and selected by default and I can't change it to default to 32-bit. If I reboot this box, the 64-bit option is selected by default and if I don't change it to the 32-bit option the box will not boot up.
Again, if I DON'T MANUALLY change to the 32-bit option every time I reboot then the box FAILS to load Open-E.
This is not about "seeing" the option in there. I don't care about what it looks like. All I want to do is to remotely reboot that box from time to time and know it will come back up, which it won't do right now because it defaults to the non-existent 64-bit kernel. If the boot options were available in the console for the Lite version this issue would be easy to work around.
I have the install already loaded to disk drives so no option to mount on my PC. I guess I'll have to convert this one back to the trial license, use the console tools to change the boot option to 32-bit and then convert to the Lite license again.