Was working with support and we decided to try redoing the replication. The secondary DSS was acting very weird to the point I decided to just blow away the secondary and start with a fresh install. Its replicating correctly now and I'm averaging about 40 MB/sec.

What I should have done before shutting down the secondary was click the stop button under replication. I think that the secondary got very confused as a result.

Bad thing is if your doing autofailover your primary stop advertising its virtual IP because the volumes are not in sync. I am in the process of redoing my servers so don't have any production yet. If this was a production situation you would have to change your actual primary DSS ip to what the virtual one was temprorarily until you fixed the secondary.