Maybe disabling Flow control will help. Try changing this from the Console Tools in ALT+CTRL+T -> Modify driver option function. Any option will need to restart system. Sometimes forcing the speed value parameters may work for some NICs also look to see what the AutoNeg is set to (Intel NICs are set to 32).
But what must i enter in the fields for "FlowControl", "AutoNeg", "Duplex" and "Speed" to set them?
I don't think that this will help, because a few hours ago i startet my restore again, this data will go with eth1 into the storage and runs with 70 MBit/s (from check_sys). In ESX i saw a speed of 8 MB/s. Then i started a IOMeter from my workstation which is connected to eth0 and got 30-35 MB/s but in this moment the speed in ESX goes down to 500 KB/s. Wehen i stop IOMeter the speed in ESX goes up again... But i will leave nothing untested.
The best will be when i can made a networking test, to see what performance i got when i made this on one NIC and then on two and final at all three NIC's.