Just for an update for anyone who might want to know.

So I ended up setting the system like this before it became more stable

Moved 8 of the drives to the Adaptec SATA RAID card and set up a RAID5 thought HW

set up a RAID1 with the 2 remaining cards on the motherboard

grouped both the SW RAID1 and the HW RAID5 to one logical volume

Since then it all appears to be working didn't even have to reboot anything when I came in this morning.