If Open-E ever supports IPoIB Connected Mode (IPoIB-CM), then IPoIB should be pretty fast. Right now, I think they only support Datagram Mode (DM). The difference is that the max MTU for CM is about 64kB, but only 2kB for DM, so obviously there is much less overhead for Connected Mode.
We had a customer asking today if we supported 40Gbps Infiniband. We do (not tested), but since we don't have IPoIB-CM, then we are still rather slow (10GbE is faster than 40Gb IPoIB-DM).
It could also be that Open-E does support IPoIB-CM, but I haven't seen any evidence, yet.